As ever, you miss my point.
I asked clarifying questions, making sure that my assumptions were correct. Had I said "In the past, you have had disagreements with players," that comes across as accusatory and mean. "In the past, you have had disagreements with players, yes?" is my way of suggesting that I could be wrong and, if so, letting you correct me so I know what really happened.
It goes like this: summarization of something that happened...question to see if I had the true and important stuff
By "disagree" I mean that you and some other person did not have the same opinions. Again, I reference that deleted thread about similar names: did everyone think the same way as you did? No, they did NOT! They did not immediately say "Yes, Para, you are right and that player was wrong." Thus, they disagreed with you.
Last edited: Feb 12, 2011