This is all true...but the linkage between them both all revolve around the user ID, if i were to post this link 
	Code:
	 http://www.kanoplay.com/zombieslayer/profile/user/100000928565357 
 into chat people on kanoplay see it as it is where as people on facebook would see it as 
	Code:
	 http://apps.facebook.com/zombieslayer/profile/user/100000928565357 
 so the link conversion is built into the chat software. So I don't see why it wouldn't apply for kong/armor as the link to an account on armor would look like 
	Code:
	 http://armorgames.com/zombie-slayer-game/14869/?ar_kac=profile&ar_kam=user&ar_kap1=100000000027760&ar_language=en 
 the link to the same account on kong would be 
	Code:
	 http://www.kongregate.com/games/kanoapps/zombie-slayer/?kv_kac=profile&kv_kam=user&kv_kap1=100000000027760&kv_language=en 
 the "kap1=" remains the same as that's the user ID.
before any goes nuts...these links are to my own accounts lol
Edit: I'd just like to note that the server 3 idea is sort of a dead cause too many variables to iron out..like what about people with an account on both, to which my initial thought was "a wee drop down menu to choose between them" but as you aren't allowed to be signed into both your kong and armor at the same time...this would be too sketchy